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Thursday, 20 February 2014

Going Abroad! Is This Good As We Thought?

Nowadays, going abroad has become really common. People usually think that go abroad will have a better future and these students can have fun and feel  felicitous in a new country. But the truth is always opposite with what people expected.



1. Going abroad = Going away from home country and family.


With people who alone go to somewhere which is really far from their home, this could be really difficult for them to survive and pass over. Some people could feel relaxed at first because they are not in the considered of their parents, they can do whatever they want and In a new country there are many interesting things to discover. But it's all at first. After face with difficulties in life such as accommodation, house work, studying, spoken language with whom the new language is till weak...It's all culture shock. People will sometimes feel exhausted because they have to sort out everything by their own and there isnt any help from family. Now they realize family is the most important thing to them.



Some people will start grousing a
bout the host country with other foreigners or they would start compare their home country and the host country.

2. Lonely


This is the biggest problem. Foreign students will exposure with new culture in a new country.
They have to get used to with new food, new way of living, new rules such as how to get train, how to buy things, how to used money.... all these things make them feel really miss their home country, their family.They will miss many holidays, occasion in their home country. They start feel lonely around them, Some people could be depressed. And they feel how big the world is. People will think about every good memories in back home and all the bad things of their home country will be certain disappeared.



3. Responsibilities.


When your family have to pay a big amount of money for your going abroad, what they will expect is that you would help a bright future. Will you depress them?

Actually, when you're called foreign student, people in your home country, some would admire you and some would jealous with you. Being foreign student becomes something precious, luxurious..
But these student have to got something to pay for admiration. Can you think about what will happen when you come back home country without a good certificate, the your language is still weak. What could people think about you. The truth is they would think you're a person who is only wasting your parent money. Worse they could think you're just a stupid, idiot and useless person. There will be the contempt, depression  instead of admiration. So being a foreign student is the same with taking heavy responsibility. 



4. Money problem

 Usually people only go to other country which have better condition and which means the price of the money from that country is much higher than the home country. Spending money with foreign student becomes a big problem when they just think about the price and compare with the price in home country. People are hard to solve this problem so they start finding a job while studying. But working while studying is an other big difficulty with people. How can they take care all of that. And to have a good job in a new country is really difficult with a foreigners.



5. My Attitudes

I'm a foreign student, I've faced with some difficulties and sometimes I feel really exhausted and tired, I just want to quit everything.
But keep trying, I always remind myself that My family is always next to you, they can't touch me but they're in my heart. Keep trying and every difficult thing will pass, Family is always supporting you.

My father always says to me ' Happiness is always there waiting for you right behind hard and difficulties'




Thanks for reading! :)

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